Picture Credit: 7 Mindsets
“Love challenges, be intrigued by mistakes, enjoy
effort and keep on learning.”-Carol
Dweck
When you are thinking
positively the results will automatically be positive. The people who have
positive thoughts seem to have a good control over their thinking processes.
Hence if they are faced with a problem they try to look for a solution. They do
not react with negative emotions like anger, frustration or violence. They are
happy, keep putting in efforts and keep thinking about a way to ease out of the
given scenario.
Growth Mindset is a term
coined for people who love challenges. You can see progress taking place in
their lives. They keep climbing up the stairs of life and success.
They do not measure
success with financial wealth and prosperity. They measure success with their
ability to deal with the given circumstances.
There are two main mindsets we can navigate life with:
growth and fixed. Having a growth mindset is essential for success.-Dr Carol
Dweck
I know that during the
lock down period no one is thinking of success. Everyone is just managing to
survive these tough and never seen before conditions that they are faced with.
But moving through the daily routine with a growth mindset would really be
beneficial for the entire people of the household.
What is a growth mindset?
As Dr Carol Dweck says-
Individuals who believe their talents
can be developed (through hard work, good strategies, and input from others)
have a growth mindset. They tend to achieve more than those with a more fixed
mindset (those who believe their talents are innate gifts).
What she wants to
emphasise is that one should aim to make himself smarter by learning the
necessary skills required rather than putting in mere wasteful efforts in just
looking smarter than the rest of the lot.
The initial cover
definitely weans off and the real turf will be exposed. Let the real turf be
full of strong mettle which can be acquired with a growth mindset.
Leave the –I have-it-all attitude-
Life will move on
different terms after the lock down. Certain rules and conditions will
certainly change. Hence we all need to be ready to face the life after the lock
down period is over. So just by assuming that things will be absolutely normal
and life will get back on track is not a very productive gesture.
Introspect and see whether
you require to gain certain skills. This is the right time to utilise it. Get
enrolled in some certification courses and upgrade your current technical or
soft skills if required. There are many webinars happening and people are
willing to share their knowledge. Almost every website has a note about what
they are offering for free or at discounted rates.
Face Criticism, Challenges and Low performance-
This is happening with
most people these days. Just to avoid wasting time, they try to delve into some
productive activity. At times they get a good response at other times they are
faced with criticism about their work.
Because they have worked
but the result is awaited. There is no guarantee of success right now.
Everything is on hold. The results are not visible. The future seems bleak. The
challenges seem big and unattainable.
Halt! It is alright. Do
not worry.
If you have taken up
something to do and are working towards it, do not expect the results right
now. Have patience. Work can never go unnoticed.
I strongly believe in
actions. Right actions will bring in the results. There may be a delay but the
fruits will be enjoyed by the person who puts in efforts.
“It is hard to beat a person that never gives up.”-Babe
Ruth
Efforts require thinking
and planning an implementation. And all these actions act in a sequence. They
are a proved scientific approach which is know to give you the results that you
have sought of so far.
Keeping a growth mindset
will make you face these challenges and much more. Do not give up. Keep putting
in the efforts that you wish to.
“I like criticism. It makes me strong.”-Lebron James
If you are feeling the insecurity you have lost the
growth mindset-
Overcome the feeling of
insecurity that is gripping you. It will not let you work. It will be a
hindrance in your growth. Overcome these feelings as soon as you can.
Meditate, pray, write down
positive affirmations, read blogs written by motivational speakers, etc.
Use the indicators which
your mind is giving you. Follow the instinct. If you are trying to do
something, those pangs of insecurity will threaten to choke you until you
decide to lower your guard down and finally end up on the couch without the
potato chips.
Some indicators which will
tell you that you have adopted a growth mindset-
1.
You are happy and
cheerful every day.
2.
Anger and
resentment has not crept up your sleeve.
3.
You are watching
the daily news only once a day to update yourself.
4.
You are reading
articles or blogs related to your industry to keep yourself updated.
5.
You are discussing
things with people if faced with a problem.
6.
You have revived
one of your hobbies and are giving time to it.
7.
You are lending a
helping hand to the people who need it.
8.
You are connected
to friends and relatives and providing them the mental support required.
9.
Your day is
scheduled properly.
10.
You are sleeping
only for the limited period of time.
“You are capable of so much more than
you can even imagine.”
Mind has limitless
thoughts. Growth mindset can help you achieve the unlimited potential that you
possess. This positive mindset challenges to keep growing in your life. You
will never stagnate or decay with this wonderful mindset that you decide to
adopt.
People will survive the
challenges thrown by COVID-19 with the help of the powers of their mind, with
collaboration and coordination wherever and however possible.
Let us beat this pandemic
with super positivity and unlimited growth to give a different dimension to the
world when it is ready to reopen.
Kesar Patel is a National
Award winner. She is a blogger who details the life of an educator through the
colours of her own experience in the field of education. Follow her at kesarpatel1234@gmail.com.
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