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I have been writing on a
teacher child relationship. This relationship is always under scanner because
time and again it has been proved that teaching and learning cannot take place
properly unless and until there is a good relationship between a teacher and
child.
There are many researches
being done on the performance of the children and the influence of the teacher
on a child’s mind has been a very dominant one. Various strategies and
techniques are suggested and adopted by the teachers to have a good and
comfortable environment in the classroom.
The pandemic and the
sudden lock down of the schools have taken the children away from the teachers.
Social Distancing has changed the norms of behaviour and approach. The gentle
touch or a pat by the teacher on a child’s back nullified many violent
situations, calmed down a disturbed child, spread praise and positivity, etc.
But these scenarios will
be totally reversed even after the lockdown is over. The society will take up
some new norms and they will remain intact in the world. Probably social
distancing will go on for a long time and so maintaining the distance will be
the first rule. So all the hi-fives and hugs will disappear and warmth and
kindness will be passed through the eyes and a smile.
So when the teachers and
children are shut away in their homes one question is arising in everyone’s
minds.
How do we maintain a
teacher-child relationship in a virtual classroom?
During this pandemic, the
teachers are not getting to speak to the children even once a week. Earlier
there was a daily interaction.
Most of the teachers have
not spoken to their students even over a phone call. A better percentage of the
teachers have spoken to the parents regarding the sending of the homework or
online learning. But there has been a nominal or negative interaction between
the educators and their students.
So how to have a
teacher-child relationship?
Here are the few points-
Make a personalised image:
Creating images is pretty
easy with different digital tools available online for free. Make a
personalised image with your name and a small message and post it at least
twice or thrice a week if not everyday for the children. The image should give
out a message to the children.
The child gets super happy
if he/ she receives these kinds of messages from their teachers. If the time is
tough on adults who are managing their finances and other chores it is also
difficult on children.
They are not getting their
free play time, mostly they are under supervision, their movements are
restricted and their actions are continuously being monitored.
So stress level is high on
their part also. They might not be able to express it. Hence if they receive
something for themselves they would be really happy.
Call up one child once a week:
I know given the numbers
in the Indian schools there are many students in a class. But try to call at
least one child or two children per day and talk to them.
The major conversation
with digital tools is happening with the parents. The children are not involved
in it. At least the younger lot that is until Grade V.
So calling up and talking
with a child once a day will really help to build an online relationship. The
child will feel happy and much more secured after talking to you.
Be Proactive:
The teacher should be very
proactive with the receiving and sending of the messages.
Text is misunderstood
easily. People have difficulty in comprehending the text which is written by
the educator. There might be typo errors which may lead to further
misunderstanding and can create confusion among the parents and the child.
Sometimes the child
interprets the message differently than the parent and their might be trouble
and confusion among them. In such cases, the parent might hesitate to contact
the teacher and would simply message.
Hence it would really pay
well, if the teacher responds to the message immediately. If further required,
calling up the parent and clearing the doubt would be even better.
Converse and Clear:
This point is similar to
the above one. Written text and messages are often not very clear in stating
their objectives.
Having a conversation with
the child or the parent to clear the concerns is always advisable.
Respect the Virtual Distance:
Most parents are working
from home and they have a lot of workload to cope up with. They have to deal
with the children at the same time.
So do understand that they
might not be able to get the work done.
Patience on your part will
really help the child. If the work is not being done by the parents ask for the
reason. Help them out or suggest ways which they can adopt to get help the
child complete the work.
Give them some extra time
to work out a solution.
The underlying meaning is
RESPECT WHAT THEY ARE DOING OR ARE UNABLE TO DO!
Appreciate and Praise:
In these stressful times,
appreciation and applaud boost morale and spread positivity. They actually
bring a smile on the faces of everyone. So definitely children will be happy.
One sticker, one poster,
one word or one star goes a long way in delighting the child.
In these sad and dull days
the parents as well as the child will have a mood lift after receiving an
applause from the teacher. It might spread happiness in the entire household
where anger and frustration might be having an upper hand.
Understand the nuances of
the fragile circumstances which are existing in the world. Every person who can
be a support to anyone else would be the biggest help to humanity.
Humility and empathy are
required to fulfill the needs of the WORLD which is craving for LOVE and
UNDERSTANDING
Final thought-
Virtual Emotions and
feelings are absolutely a new context for the children in India. They are used
to having people around everywhere that they go. It can be their home or a
party or a school or a classroom.
Suddenly all the people
have vanished behind the screens. The only people left indoors are the family
members.
In such a scenario if the
child gets the feeling of his own physical classroom he or she would love the
idea.
Very well written and expressed, Kesar Ma'am.
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